tools: limit bgp route-maps to direct changes only

tools: limit bgp route-maps to direct changes only

When using frr-reload.py to modify a bgp neighbors route-map
the code was doing this:

a) deleting the previous route-map: `no neighbor XX route-map YY (in|out)`
b) Adding the new route-map back in `neighbor XX route-may ZZ (in|out)`

Now imagine that we have an outgoing route-map that we are changing
and the reload is large because of a large number of lines in frr.conf

Item (a) will happen.  BGP will immediately start sending all local
routes.  At some point in time in the future (b) will be applied.
This of course causes a withdraw but for a short amount of time we
are leaking unintended routes.  This is bad for several reasons
not 1) route churn upstream, 2) we might influence traffic to go the
wrong way. 3) if upstream has a maximum-prefix command the routes
being sent might trip its circuitry and shutdown the peer entirely
not even allowing you to get to (b).

Ticket: #2589685
Signed-off-by: Donald Sharp <sharpd@nvidia.com>